Love Or Marriage
One of the fundementals of society is marriage.However ,is marriage may eliminate the emotions from a relationship.That is why ,in these days ,divorce rates are high.This is because I choose this topic.When one falls in love ,he may thinkt that he has to get married but I believe marriage kills love for many reasons.
The first reason for supporting the idea that marriage kills love is that both partners can not share anything . For instance ,before marriage they go to the cinema regulerly but once married they quıt this hobit. They do some activites and see each other everyday, so they start to get bored of each other.
Moreover ,when one get married , he may have more economic and personel responsibilities. The time economic problems start ,partners start arguing regularly since they can not supoort their families .In addition to this , if one has a family,he bares the responsibilities of his beha viours.
The final and the most important reason why marriage kills love is restriction of freedom.A married person is expected to some home early since marriage means aregular life. In addition to this , one may not go out with his friends and stoy in his friends house.In time , it turns into a boring life for each partner and love is killed.
The opponents of the idea that marriage kills love claim that it is completely wrong.They think that when one gets married and has children ,love is protected even more .However ,they seen to forget that children may mean problem for the couple.If one has children , he has to deal with their problems . For instance ,when children have problem about their marks it effects the family and causes many arguements betweens the wife and husband.
In conclusion, marriage kills love. As long as one is married , he may have many issues such as restriction of freedom,responsibilities and hobbies. I think that one should not marry because the best may to fall in love forever is that ıf one has no concern about his partners and let everything go as much as possible.Only an this way may love lost forever.
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ReplyDeleteSounds like you have loads of experience in love and marriage issues :) Thanks for the post.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LZ0XgNfc7qQ
ReplyDeleteMurat,
ReplyDeleteThis was hilarious! :) Made me wanna watch Al Bundy and his wars with the folks :) Thank you!
"A married person is expected to some home early.."
ReplyDeletei love typos
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some home is just fine..
@ ece & students of my S.E.L.F.
ReplyDeletewish you the best of luck of guys..
see you around
i wrote wrong. it must have been 'come' not some :)
ReplyDeletehttp://www.imdb.com/title/tt0092400/ The youtube link reminds me this tv series :)
ReplyDeletelove or marriage :) i think marriage kills love
ReplyDeleteI think marriage stabilizes love
ReplyDeleteI think love never ends :)))
ReplyDeletehaha everyone wrote the thoughts about marriage as if we know something about marriage.In my opinion,love is not endless so it is not about marriage.It kill itself at the end,marriage is just an excuse:)
ReplyDeleteI think it changes from person to person,however marriage generally kills love.
ReplyDeleteIt depends how much importance you give to your marriage.In my opinion if you are together with someone for such a long period of time,it becomes so much more than sex, love and passion.It becomes like fellow passenger.
ReplyDeleteif you have real love, it will never end.
ReplyDeleteI read a lot about marriage and have not seen this much:) Maybe divisor for men only, ''While You Were Sleeping'' movie ,I recommend to everyone.
ReplyDeleteı thing real love never end and married getting stronger it with little children:)
ReplyDeleteI agree with deniz's opinion about love and marriage.Love gets stronger if a man and a woman are respectful and understanding to each other and children bring happiness with them :)
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